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Vaginal dryness is not the end of the world and it doesn't mean anything is "wrong" with you. And luckily, there are products and practices that can help make sex more enjoyable regardless of your level of natural lubrication.

There is a shortage of sex toys that make transmasculine people and trans males feel affirmed and supported -- but there are options out there. Shop around and try things out until you find what works for you.

Do you like sex? Know someone who does? We're willing to bet there are tons of people on your list who could use one of these sex-positive holiday gifts!
‘Tis the season to be jolly!
From blindfolds and weighted blankets to coffee table books and online shibari classes, here’s our list of everything we want this holiday season. Of course, we checked it twice. That said, we don’t care if you were naughty or nice.

In a strong year for dining, what were the absolute standouts? We asked our contributors to the Resy Hit List to share their top 10 dining experiences from this year in their city — restaurants and meals that left an impression, and helped to define the state of American dining right now. Please welcome back our Best of The Hit List for 2022. (You can find other cities’ top picks here.)

No kink space or event can be all things to all people. Still, there’s room for improvement in making LGBTQ+ people feel safe and supported in the kink world. Event organizers must create opportunities for LGBTQ+ people to explore sexuality in a safe, welcoming space.

After navigating yet another strange yet hopeful year, we Seattlites deserve every little thing that brings us pleasure, whether it’s the perfect cheesy bite or a great smoky cocktail. So this month’s Resy Hit List lineup screams out winter comfort foods.

From shrimp toast and green chile stew to roasted bone marrow and soft pretzel snack boards, we’re indulging in flavors that taste good and feel good. So have at it — and don’t talk to us about guilt — with December’s Hit List.

Here’s every sip and bite you need to survive and thrive during the holiday season.

With fall (finally!) in full swing and winter right around the corner, Seattle bars and restaurants are bringing an abundance of fall harvest and cozy cocktails to guests — just in time for the damp to appear. Thankfully, many spots are hanging on to their heated outdoor setups, so you’ll stay toasty as you sip hot toddies.

Whether you’re a sex toy beginner or a hardware savant, Dame has a vibrator for you. Its latest, the Dame Dip, hits all the right spots no matter where you fall on the sex toy experience spectrum. Let’s take a look at it…

Your butt is beautiful. So beautiful, there’s a whole day, Ass Day on October 17, dedicated to celebrating anal play and your derrière.

If the thought of buying a sex toy seems overwhelming, you're not alone. Thankfully, there are plenty of reputable companies that offer online retail services. Shopping in person can be stressful—we get it. But shopping for sex toys from the comfort of your couch and pajamas? That's easy.

Power comes with a price.

As a sex writer and sex toy reviewer, I have tried hundreds, if not thousands, of sex toys over my nearly 25-year career. I have put every one of my holes through the paces in the name of investigative pleasure. At this point, very little strikes me as strange. Still, when it comes to sex toys, it takes a lot to impress me. So, when I got to try the Motorbunny BUCK, I lubed up and leaped at the chance.

When it comes to anal pleasure, people with prostates, the walnut-sized gland that sits in front of the rectum, have a clear advantage. Also known as the male G-spot, the prostate touts as many nerve endings as the clitoris, making it an area that can lead to some strong orgasms. (FYI, it should be noted that anal play isn’t “gay,” as sexual organs don’t have sexual orientations—people do. Also, not all people with prostates have penises.)

Sweater weather has officially arrived in Seattle. Mornings are crisp, the days are sunny, leaves are changing, and menus sparkle with autumnal bounty. (And yes, grey is coming.)
Heated patios abound for those still cautious about dining indoors. And your options are bountiful all around, whether tapas at MariPili near Seattle U. or sushi at Nishino after a leafy afternoon at the Arboretum. The Resy Hit List is back, with 10 must-try spots for your roster.

When it comes to eating pussy, “WAP” rapper Cardi B says it best: “Put this pussy right in your face. Swipe your nose like a credit card.” Sure, you can nosedive into a pussy. But there are literally unlimited ways to go down on a vulva, that are, ahem, a little more subtle.

As a seasoned pussy eating pro, here’s how I like to pleasure a vulva*. It’s not the only way, but it’s my way, and it’s made many people with vulvas very happy.