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10 Places to Kiss in Washington
From Port Angeles to a fireside lounge, these spots bring charm to that special kiss.
A List of 25 Sexual Kinks and Fetishes We Know You're Curious About
So you like it when your partner spreads your limbs, ties you to the bedposts, and talks dirty to you. Or maybe it turns you on to kiss your partner's feet, smell their hair, or even wear their underwear. The list of kinks and fetishes out there is pretty much endless.
Vaginal Dryness: What to Do When Natural Lubrication Isn't Enough
Vaginal dryness is not the end of the world and it doesn't mean anything is "wrong" with you. And luckily, there are products and practices that can help make sex more enjoyable regardless of your level of natural lubrication.
7 Best Sex Toys for FTM Transgender People with Bottom Growth
There is a shortage of sex toys that make transmasculine people and trans males feel affirmed and supported -- but there are options out there. Shop around and try things out until you find what works for you.
Holiday Gift Guide: Top Sex-Positive Gifts (Not Just Sex Toys!)
Do you like sex? Know someone who does? We're willing to bet there are tons of people on your list who could use one of these sex-positive holiday gifts!
‘Tis the season to be jolly!
From blindfolds and weighted blankets to coffee table books and online shibari classes, here’s our list of everything we want this holiday season. Of course, we checked it twice. That said, we don’t care if you were naughty or nice.
The 10 Restaurants That Defined Seattle Dining in 2022
In a strong year for dining, what were the absolute standouts? We asked our contributors to the Resy Hit List to share their top 10 dining experiences from this year in their city — restaurants and meals that left an impression, and helped to define the state of American dining right now. Please welcome back our Best of The Hit List for 2022. (You can find other cities’ top picks here.)
6 ways to make kink spaces and events more welcoming for LGBTQ+ attendees
No kink space or event can be all things to all people. Still, there’s room for improvement in making LGBTQ+ people feel safe and supported in the kink world. Event organizers must create opportunities for LGBTQ+ people to explore sexuality in a safe, welcoming space.
Where to Eat in December: Frolik, Noodle/Bar, Good Voyage, and More
After navigating yet another strange yet hopeful year, we Seattlites deserve every little thing that brings us pleasure, whether it’s the perfect cheesy bite or a great smoky cocktail. So this month’s Resy Hit List lineup screams out winter comfort foods.
From shrimp toast and green chile stew to roasted bone marrow and soft pretzel snack boards, we’re indulging in flavors that taste good and feel good. So have at it — and don’t talk to us about guilt — with December’s Hit List.
Here’s every sip and bite you need to survive and thrive during the holiday season.
Where to Eat in November: Off Alley, Noi Thai Cuisine, Lupo and More
With fall (finally!) in full swing and winter right around the corner, Seattle bars and restaurants are bringing an abundance of fall harvest and cozy cocktails to guests — just in time for the damp to appear. Thankfully, many spots are hanging on to their heated outdoor setups, so you’ll stay toasty as you sip hot toddies.
CBD won’t get your pussy high, but it will make it very happy
When it comes to sex—solo or partnered—lube is always a good idea and CBD lube is a great idea.
Even if you don’t think you need lube, you might find that you actually like it. “Not only can you experiment with a wider array of positions and techniques when you add the slippery stuff, but research continues to suggest that using lube is associated with more pleasure and orgasms,” says Dr. Jess O’Reilly, Astroglide’s resident sexologist.
Dame Dip: A different kind of toy that does it all without breaking the bank
Whether you’re a sex toy beginner or a hardware savant, Dame has a vibrator for you. Its latest, the Dame Dip, hits all the right spots no matter where you fall on the sex toy experience spectrum. Let’s take a look at it…
10 ways to pleasure an ass
Your butt is beautiful. So beautiful, there’s a whole day, Ass Day on October 17, dedicated to celebrating anal play and your derrière.
20 Adult Stores for All Your Sex Toy Needs
If the thought of buying a sex toy seems overwhelming, you're not alone. Thankfully, there are plenty of reputable companies that offer online retail services. Shopping in person can be stressful—we get it. But shopping for sex toys from the comfort of your couch and pajamas? That's easy.
Motorbunny BUCK is the height of luxury hedonism
Power comes with a price.
As a sex writer and sex toy reviewer, I have tried hundreds, if not thousands, of sex toys over my nearly 25-year career. I have put every one of my holes through the paces in the name of investigative pleasure. At this point, very little strikes me as strange. Still, when it comes to sex toys, it takes a lot to impress me. So, when I got to try the Motorbunny BUCK, I lubed up and leaped at the chance.
20 Best Prostate Massagers For Anal Play, According To Sex Experts
When it comes to anal pleasure, people with prostates, the walnut-sized gland that sits in front of the rectum, have a clear advantage. Also known as the male G-spot, the prostate touts as many nerve endings as the clitoris, making it an area that can lead to some strong orgasms. (FYI, it should be noted that anal play isn’t “gay,” as sexual organs don’t have sexual orientations—people do. Also, not all people with prostates have penises.)