Ryn Pfeuffer

Hello, my queer loves and straight allies! Pride Month is drawing to a close, but that's no reason to stop the momentum. It’s still time for LGBTQIA+ communities to come together to celebrate – and also honor the unsung heroines, the lesbians and transgender women of color, who fought for our rights, acceptance, and equality.

If the pandemic found you at home with some time on your hands, it's best if you found your hands in your pants.

Since the start of COVID-19, I've masturbated virtually every Sunday with a few dozen women from around the world. The common thread? Our Bodysex work with Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross. Dodson was the OG pioneer of human sexuality and a true feminist liberator. Ross, Betty's co-conspirator, is president of the Betty Dodson Foundation and the badass who had an on-camera orgasm on The Goop Lab.

In the interest of happy, healthy relationships and great sex Satisfyer asks, 'How Well Do You Know Consent?' Because they know, there is nothing hotter than hearing "Yes, yes, YES!"

We are all for finding creative new ways to get off and get down. Cue, the “rainbow kiss.” The trend, #rainbowkiss, is taking the sex world by storm with literally 5.9 million views on TikTok.

For those new to this trend, a rainbow kiss involves mutual oral sex between a menstruating person and a person who ejaculates, and then kissing with the other person's fluid in your mouth.

One year into the pandemic, we’ve watched Seattle restaurants adapt and find new creative new ways to serve their customers. Fine-dining haunts shifted to selling wine and groceries; others now offer family-sized takeout meals. There are dining-room yurts.

Gender stereotyping literally starts in infancy. Adults make assumptions the moment sex is assigned to a child—often referred to using the acronyms AFAB (Assigned Female at Birth) or AMAB (Assigned Male At Birth). Gender-based expectations start at an early age. These fixed and oversimplified beliefs are harmful since your biological sex does not tell your complete story. Your gender identity is how you feel inside and choose to express those feelings. No one gets to decide your gender, but you.

Kinkly recognizes that there are lots of people with vulva/vaginas and uteruses who aren't women and that many women do not have these body parts. Many of the quotes in the article are speaking about cisgender women specifically, but we love bodies of every kind and any kind of tech that makes having one healthier and happier.

We’re high on the idea that a new year has started. There’s promise in the air. But it’s still winter, and as Seattle restaurants continue to struggle, most are relying on takeout, delivery, and anyone willing to brave outdoor seating and chilly temperatures. The good news: Spaces are covered, fire pits are ablaze, and restaurateurs are doing everything they can to make it welcoming and warm, or warm enough.

This year, more than ever, I wish everyone peace, love, pleasure, and joy. We all deserve calm and comfort after this shitshow of year. These sex-positive gifts were picked with self-care, pleasure, and social change in mind.

Buckle up, diners! It’s another month of constant change. Gov. Jay Inslee issued another halt to indoor service at restaurants and bars, with outdoor dining limited to table sizes of five or fewer. This will remain in effect until at least December 14. As the famous proverb says, necessity is the mother of invention — and thankfully, restaurants have had months to refine the takeout process and race to winterize outdoor dining spaces. From bento boxes to burgers, here’s our latest Hit List.

We live in an on-the-go world. People are busy. I get it. But sexual pleasure is one of the things in life that we shouldn't hurry through! Especially when it comes to foreplay.

Stop, breathe, fantasize, and discover the wonders of slow sex.

If you want steady stimulation that won’t stop ‘til you get enough, consider investing in a sex machine. It can be used or without a partner, and is the next best thing to a penis or strap-on. In some ways, it’s even better.

Old Aunt Flo likes a roll in the hay too. These positions work well during "that time of the month" and make sweet, sweet, hormonally-fueled period sex even better.

A femdom class can teach you about relationships outside of the bedroom too.